Erotica vs. realism

Of course, I know better than to complain about reviews of my work. But sometimes, they do make me wonder. And one critical angle in particular makes me wonder.

I recently posted my story “The Girl on the Bicycle” on an erotica website. And while there were a number of positive responses, quite a few readers pointed out that it wasn’t “realistic”. Of course, I can’t argue with that. It certainly isn’t – nor was it ever intended to be.

I realize that there is a branch of literature that deals earnestly with issues of real life human sexuality. But that’s not where I’m at. I write erotica, pornography, literary porn – whatever you choose to call it. My stories explore sexual fantasies and are primarily intended to arouse the reader.

And in that kind of territory, I see no need for realism. In fact, the sheer implausibilty of a situation can add to the excitement – breaking taboos, disregarding social norms. These stories take place in something like an alternate reality – where there are no boundaries – and no rules other than those of pure lust and instant satisfaction of carnal urges.

In the “magical realism” genre – from Kafka via Borges to Murakami – fantastical events are described matter-of-factly. Which has the effect of making them almost believable – which, paradoxically, also heightens the effect of the fantastic.

I think there is a similar genre of “erotic realism” – one that makes preposterous sexual enconters and activities come to life in a tangible way – almost, but not quite, suspending disbelief.

And in this kind of work, realism is not an issue.

Illustration: “L’Entrée de la ville ” (1940) by Paul Delvaux.

 

One Reply to “Erotica vs. realism”

  1. I think, especially with erotica, it’s impossible to please everyone. Erotica seeks to arouse, but we all have fundamentally different kinks and cues that arouse us.

    Some people like more realistic portrayals, other like to dwell in the worlds of fantasy. Neither is better than the other. They’re like vanilla and chocolate icecream. Which one you prefer depends entirely on your unique taste.
    Sex and arousal are largely dependant on our fantasies, and erotica have always served as fulfillment of these fantasies.

    So as authors, I think, the worst we can do is let these critical reviews that obviously express personal preference make us doubt ourselves.
    I mean, you yourself say your story wasn’t even meant to be realistic–so why do you worry? You never wrote it under the premise of being realistic. 🙂

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